Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of John Treliving with the following comment:
Elizabeth Treliving Joll is my second great-grandmother. I have just started doing my family tree on Ancestry.com. I very much appreciate what you do. One day I would love to visit Cornwall, but I as I live far away in New Zealand, it may be some time before I get back to the UK. Many thanks, Ruth